No estaba segura si escribir un miércoles de tips porque ando medio sensible y eso no trae nada bueno, pero me dije ok, a la gente también le gusta la cursilería, así que le di permiso a mi yo emo para expresarse.
Soy el tipo de persona que siempre piensa antes de hablar, por eso soy tan calladita.... prrr, prrr (son grillos), Anyway, lo malo es cuando llega el "verb vomit".
El verb vomit se hace sin pensarlo, por un momento en que los sentimientos se apoderan de tu mente y hablas sin que nada te detenga.
Es bueno decir lo que sientes, pero el problema con el verb vomit es que llenas al receptor (al bato al que le sueltas la sopa) con demasiada informació, la cual llega a ser imposible de asimilar.
Al principio no se reacciona, pero después la mente analiza todo lo dicho y es cuando vienen los problemas: el arrepentimiento.
No creo en el arrepentimiento, creo que si ya pasó no hay forma de eliminar lo que hicimos o dijimos y como personas maduras debemos ver hacia adelante y tratar de reparar el daño.
El verb vomit sirve para retirar todos esos sentimientos que no te dejan pensar ni actuar con claridad, por lo que lo bueno de haber expresado todo, es que ahora puedes pensar en cómo solucionar las cosas.
Es de sabios pedir perdón, pero no se debe confundir con arrepentimiento, lo que dijiste, lo dijiste por algo, porque los sentías, quizás fue una manera fea de decir las cosas, pero tienes que estar consciente de que sí las dijiste así era porque de plano necesitaban salir, era necesario liberar eso que te estabas guardando y que no supiste comunicarlo de otra manera; el perdón llegará, pero más que perdón será una aclaración y una forma de compartir opiniones sobre un problema.
Como el post verb vomit requiere un acomodo de ideas en tu mente, la dejaré hasta aquí y sólo te diré una cosa: no hay nada que un pastel de chocolate y unas cuantas quotes de Marilyn Monroe no puedan solucionar. Te dejo mis favoritas (no las pondré en español, porque así no me laten).
1. "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
2. “A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left.”
3. “This life is what you make it. Not matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, somg go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And babve, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
4. “If you're gonna be two-faced at least make one of them pretty.”
5. “It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone.”
6. “When it comes down to it, I let them think what they want. If they care enough to bother with what I do, then I'm already better than them.”
7."I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves. They didn't bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn't argue with them. They were obviously loving somebody I wasn't.”
8. “The nicest thing for me is sleep, then at least I can dream.”
9. “Success makes so many people hate you. I wish it wasn't that way. It would be wonderful to enjoy success without seeing envy in the eyes of those around you.”
10. “Dogs never bite me. Just humans.”
11. “I used to think as I looked out on the Hollywood night — there must be thousands of girls sitting alone like me, dreaming of becoming a movie star. But I'm not going to worry about them. I'm dreaming the hardest.”
12. ”Friendship is the best thing that comes to life. Friends will always be there for you. Don’t worry about the fakes, worry about the people who had your back from the start and never treated you wrong. Always remember they are your real friends. Don’t ever take them as granted because one day you’re going to lose a good friend by the way your actions are. When you see a good friend stick to that person.”
13. “Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.”
14. “When you have a good friend that really cares for you and tries to stick in there with you, you treat them like nothing. Learn to be a good friend because one day you're gonna look up and say I lost a good friend. Learn how to be respectful to your friends, don't just start arguments with them and don't tell them the reason, always remember your friends will be there quicker than your family. Learn to remember you got great friends, don't forget that and they will always care for you no matter what. Always remember to smile and look up at what you got in life.”
15. “I knew I belonged to the public and to the world, not because I was talented or even beautiful, but because I had never belonged to anything or anyone else.”
16. “I am invariably late for appointments - sometimes as much as two hours. I've tried to change my ways but the things that make me late are too strong, and too pleasing.”
17. “I've often stood silent at a party for hours listening to my movie idols turn into dull and little people. ”
18. “When you're young and healthy you can plan on Monday to commit suicide, and by Wednesday you're laughing again.”
19. “It’s better for the whole world to know you, even as a sex star, than never to be known at all.”
20. “I don’t stop when I’m tired. I only stop when I’m done ...I’m the type of person that tries to fall back asleep in the morning just to finish a dream"
21. “I said pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together.”
22. “She was a girl who knew how to be happy even when she was sad.”
XOXO, A
